Will No Contact Push My Ex Away? Let the Secrets Be Told

"Will no contact push my ex away from me? Or will no contact help bring my ex back to me again?" Alright, this is one tough question for you. I don't know where you've learned about this "no contact" method, and it definitely seem out of the way to actually help get your ex back, that's why I'm here, to clear up the cloudy mist of "Will no contact push my ex away from me?" type of question.

First off, if there is hope in your relationship, then no it won't - it will definitely make your ex think about their decision to break up again. After a few weeks of no contact, you'll probably be worried and start blasting yourself with thoughts like "Maybe they've forgotten about me, and maybe they think I don't love them anymore, maybe no contact really does push my ex away from me".

If that's the way you're thinking, then how about considering this: If you have no contact with your ex for a few weeks and then you suddenly contact them to tell you that you still care, what message does that send? 
It says to your ex "I implemented no contact to move on and heal, and now 3 weeks down the track I haven't moved on or healed at all."

Your ex will again know that they can still have you if they want you, even if they don't hear from you for another few weeks, they won't be overly concerned - the last few weeks hadn't diminished your feelings, so why would the ex think the next few will?!

Not a bad little (HUGE) security boost for the ex there, huh? Not to mention a huge step backwards for your good self.

"So, will no contact push my ex away from me? Or vice versa?" I guess you have the answer now.

No contact allows you to get back on your feet and start to feel confident in who you are again. Remember a time when you were single and happy? This is exactly where you need to get yourself standing again, if you want to get back with your ex again.

Find out how did I get my ex back by implementing the "No contact" method. Some may be reluctant to take steps to regain independence, but you are useless to anyone (including your ex if they want you back) if you are unable to be happy with yourself. I totally understand how you are feeling right now, I've been there once, too. But time is not on your side my friend. There are these tiny little steps and immediate actions that you could do to get back with your ex, but that's as far as I can hold you, the rest are up to you. Wishing For You, Casey Miller