7 Secrets To Win Her Love Back

"Have you ever felt frustrated trying to win her love back, but everything seems to be out right opposite of what you predicted? Do you feel hopeless, and almost lose faith on this fading relationship that you are trying to hold back?"

Guys, I can tell you that these things do happen, and in fact are commonly happening to most guys. One thing is that, to win her love back is NOT IMPOSSIBLE, all it takes is you gotta do it CORRECTLY.

Today I'm going to share with you some stunning secrets you will need to first understand, before you actually make the moves to win her love back:

The power of Ears. Ears is the most important part of us, in fact they play a major role in our relationships as well! When women want to tell you their troubles and stories, they don't expect guys to chip in giving comments, all they need is the pair of EARS.. This includes hundreds of hours of listening to them while they talk while you, for the most part, are just attentively silent. So guys, learn to LISTEN, and just LISTEN, unless you're asked to comment.

People are attracted to independence and repulsed by those who seem to cling. Therefore, to avoid scaring off a potential love you must throw in a lot of apparent aloofness while trying to win them. If you think this may confuse the one you want about your real intentions, you're right. Sorry, but that's just the way it needs to be in the early stages of romance.

People want what they can't have. In fact, people tend to appreciate more on things they get within difficulties. Therefore, you have to hold back form giving yourself completely to the one you want at the first indications they're starting to become attracted to you. Instead of giving the dog the whole steak at once, feed it to him/her one bite at a time, over an extended period of time.

People's conscious decisions are subconsciously motivated. Therefore, don't be too concerned by what the one you want says they think they want, or acts like they think they want. You should act on principle and eventually they'll realize that what they really want is you.

People are most drawn to a person with a positive and confident self-image. Therefore, resist the temptation to spill your feelings of self-doubt. Nothing is a bigger turn-off than somebody who insists on bursting your bubble and destroying the image they want to have of you.

People's attitudes are really a reflection of what you think of them. Therefore, while not wearing your heart on your sleeve, you must still prove though your actions that your friendship to them is a committed one. This takes time.

The longer a relationship grows, the stronger it becomes. Therefore, if you mess up along the way, take comfort in the fact that tomorrow is another day, and the fact that you prove you have lasted and learned from yesterday's hardships, will in itself increase their feelings of commitment to you in the long run.

P/S : These tips are some of the secrets I derived from The Magic Of Making Up, an eBook from T W Jackson, he speaks a great deal on exactly how to save your relationships in all situations.

Blessings~