1. "You don't realize how much you care about someone until they don't care about you."
How many of us know that this is true? We always want things we can't have. When we have them we take them for granted and not notice that they are there. But when they are gone we feel like a big part of our life has disappeared. One we kind of liked!
2. "You've never felt pain until you've felt love."
There are varying types of pain in life. The pain you get when you have a cut or bruise right up to the pain you feel when your heart has been shredded to pieces. Whoever you have lost and in what way that pain is the worst type of pain that you can experience. But if the love was not there then that pain would not have existed.
3. "If I hadn't met you, I wouldn't like you. If I hadn't liked you, I wouldn't love you. If I wouldn't love you, I wouldn't miss you. But I did, I do and I will."
Pretty simple one to understand. If you hadn't have met you wouldn't have fallen in love and feel hurt now. But on the positive side if you didn't meet them where would you be now. There's always someone else you can meet and fall in love with around every corner.
4. "I can't talk to you anymore, it's not that I am mad at you, it's just that when I talk to you I realize how much I love you and when I realize how much I love you, I realize I can't have you and that makes me love you even more."
This is really the best advice as staying away from you ex can help you in many ways. First it gives you a chance to cool down and work out your feelings and secondly meeting up with them will only make you feel worse and may lead to harsh words being said or pushing them away even further.
5. "I'm not supposed to love you, I'm not supposed to care, I'm not supposed to live my life wishing you were there. I'm not supposed to wonder where you are or what you're doing, but I can't help it, cause I'm in love with you."
You can't just switch your love off. Depending on the reason that your relationship ended your ex may have been thinking about it for a while and has had time to adjust before even ending the relationship. If you didn't see it coming the hurt is even stronger and your love cannot just end. It will take time but try to introduce more things in your life so you don't have time to think about what they are doing and with whom and you may soon start to wonder why you even cared in the first place!
6. "Trying to forget someone you love is like trying to remember someone you never knew."
But yes, forgetting is going to be hard. There's no button you can press to turn your love off. It may take some time. But as this quote seems to suggest it may seem impossible at the moment. Depending on the choices you make this may always be so but no one wants to live in the past so you must start to rebuild your life however much you may not want to.
7. "Nothing hurts more than realizing they meant everything to you, but you meant nothing to them."
This is another one that we can all relate to. When a relationship finishes you are the one that realises how much your ex means to you whilst they are realising how much you don't mean to them. It is not an easy situation and the only positive thing you can do it either move on and forget about them or turn the situation around and make them realise exactly what they are missing out on!
8. "The pain of having a broken heart is not so much as to kill you, yet not so little as to let you live."
Your broken heart will not kill you but it is painful enough for you to believe that will. During these times it is important for you to keep believing that it won't always be like this and however hard it may seem at these times it WILL get better.
9. "Sometimes you think you've gotten over a person, but when you see them smile you suddenly realize you're just pretending you're over them to ease the pain of knowing that they will never be yours."
This is a good reason to distance yourself from your ex until you feel like you are truly over them. Seeing them again so soon, especially if they have moved on, can be especially painful and bring everything flooding back. /so if possible try to keep away until you feel like you have moved on and are in a place where their life won't affect you.
10. "Missing you isn't the hard part, knowing I once had you is what breaks my heart."
You may miss them but knowing that you were with them and never will be again is going to take some coming to terms with.
How many of us know that this is true? We always want things we can't have. When we have them we take them for granted and not notice that they are there. But when they are gone we feel like a big part of our life has disappeared. One we kind of liked!
2. "You've never felt pain until you've felt love."
There are varying types of pain in life. The pain you get when you have a cut or bruise right up to the pain you feel when your heart has been shredded to pieces. Whoever you have lost and in what way that pain is the worst type of pain that you can experience. But if the love was not there then that pain would not have existed.
3. "If I hadn't met you, I wouldn't like you. If I hadn't liked you, I wouldn't love you. If I wouldn't love you, I wouldn't miss you. But I did, I do and I will."
Pretty simple one to understand. If you hadn't have met you wouldn't have fallen in love and feel hurt now. But on the positive side if you didn't meet them where would you be now. There's always someone else you can meet and fall in love with around every corner.
4. "I can't talk to you anymore, it's not that I am mad at you, it's just that when I talk to you I realize how much I love you and when I realize how much I love you, I realize I can't have you and that makes me love you even more."
This is really the best advice as staying away from you ex can help you in many ways. First it gives you a chance to cool down and work out your feelings and secondly meeting up with them will only make you feel worse and may lead to harsh words being said or pushing them away even further.
5. "I'm not supposed to love you, I'm not supposed to care, I'm not supposed to live my life wishing you were there. I'm not supposed to wonder where you are or what you're doing, but I can't help it, cause I'm in love with you."
You can't just switch your love off. Depending on the reason that your relationship ended your ex may have been thinking about it for a while and has had time to adjust before even ending the relationship. If you didn't see it coming the hurt is even stronger and your love cannot just end. It will take time but try to introduce more things in your life so you don't have time to think about what they are doing and with whom and you may soon start to wonder why you even cared in the first place!
6. "Trying to forget someone you love is like trying to remember someone you never knew."
But yes, forgetting is going to be hard. There's no button you can press to turn your love off. It may take some time. But as this quote seems to suggest it may seem impossible at the moment. Depending on the choices you make this may always be so but no one wants to live in the past so you must start to rebuild your life however much you may not want to.
7. "Nothing hurts more than realizing they meant everything to you, but you meant nothing to them."
This is another one that we can all relate to. When a relationship finishes you are the one that realises how much your ex means to you whilst they are realising how much you don't mean to them. It is not an easy situation and the only positive thing you can do it either move on and forget about them or turn the situation around and make them realise exactly what they are missing out on!
8. "The pain of having a broken heart is not so much as to kill you, yet not so little as to let you live."
Your broken heart will not kill you but it is painful enough for you to believe that will. During these times it is important for you to keep believing that it won't always be like this and however hard it may seem at these times it WILL get better.
9. "Sometimes you think you've gotten over a person, but when you see them smile you suddenly realize you're just pretending you're over them to ease the pain of knowing that they will never be yours."
This is a good reason to distance yourself from your ex until you feel like you are truly over them. Seeing them again so soon, especially if they have moved on, can be especially painful and bring everything flooding back. /so if possible try to keep away until you feel like you have moved on and are in a place where their life won't affect you.
10. "Missing you isn't the hard part, knowing I once had you is what breaks my heart."
You may miss them but knowing that you were with them and never will be again is going to take some coming to terms with.
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