What if, when you woke up tomorrow, you had only those things you had remembered to be grateful for today?
Note: This is list is very specific to me and my situation, and is meant to be my example (and my reminder) only. I’m well aware that I’m a highly privileged person, in AA and in life.
- AA
- AA literature, so much move available now than 30 years ago
- AA meetings that are plentiful and diverse
- Airplanes that are safe, accessible and affordable
- Anesthesia
- Animal shelters and the people who support them
- Antibiotics
- Antihistamines
- Antiques and heirlooms
- Art
- Artists
- Artificial body parts (my tooth, her knee)
- Artificial Sweeteners
- Authors who take the time to do the writing I can read
- Auto mechanics who are honest
- Babies
- Bandaids
- Beaches to visit, and as part of my landscape growing up
- Bed
- Bible
- Big Book (Alcoholics Anonymous)
- Big dogs I am brave enough to walk.
- Birthplace of Bill W and the people who preserve it for me to visit.
- Blogs to read from the comfort of my home
- Boats
- Bones for the dog
- Books on CD for the car ride
- Books to own and borrow without censorship
- Calculators
- Candles
- Candy
- Car
- Car insurance
- Caregivers
- Cat food
- Cat litter (was there life before cat litter?)
- Cell phones that help me contact people who are not in one place
- Change
- Charities that enable me to help people from right here at home
- Cheese
- Chemotherapy
- Children (adult children)
- (That my) Children have not been endangered by my alcoholism, that they only know me sober.
- Chocolate
- Christmas – although I have huge difficulties with Christianity, it is nice to contemplate this person that was Jesus and the ways in which he changed the world for good.
- Church bells I can hear from my house twice a day when I’m home.
- Church that is diverse, accepting and traditional
- Cities that are safe and interesting
- Clergy
- Clouds
- Coffee
- Computers at home and work and many other places
- Cook books
- Cousins (as an only child, they’ve meant a lot to me)
- Crocheting and a crochet teacher
- Democracy and elections
- Dental hygienists (I don’t know what they make, but it can’t be enough)
- Dental implants
- Dentists
- Dialysis
- Digital cameras
- Doctors who care about what they are doing, and who think about what they are doing.
- Dog parks
- Dog sighs
- Dogs
- Donations of time, money and material things people give to others who need them, to the world and environment.
- Drivers who drive people who are unable to drive
- Drivers who take others to AA meetings
- Ebay
- Electricity
- Electronic books (so handy!)
- Elizabeth Cady Stanton and others who devoted their lives to equal rights for women.
- Employment in a safe, comfortable place – in a job that lets me serve others
- Employment of my wife, son and daughter – in safe, comfortable places in work they enjoy doing
- English as my first language – I’m grateful that I can speak English and that the places it is spoken and understood are so vast and varied and that I didn’t have to try to learn it as a second language.
- Eye doctors
- Eye glass designers, and technicians who help me find some
- Eyeglasses
- Eyesight that is good and easily corrected to perfect
- Faith
- Family
- Fire
- Fire fighters
- Five senses – touch, taste, smell, hearing, seeing
- (anti) Flea treatments – my life before them was often infested
- Food that is affordable, plentiful, safe and interesting
- Foster critters and the people who foster them
- Freedom of the press
- Friends
- Funerals, a chance to say goodbye and be present and possibly supportive of other survivors
- Gay – being openly, safely gay
- Glasses that correct eyesight
- God’s Grace that gives me good things I don’t deserve
- GPS
- Graduations – the ones I’ve achieved, and the ones my loved ones have achieved
- Grandparents, especially my mother’s parents, who helped raise me
- Gratitude and the ability to appreciate things
- Hair straighteners – I wish they had had these when I was young, although maybe a lack of straight hair taught me acceptance. But I love it now!
- Hawaii
- Health insurance
- Heating pads
- Hillary Clinton and the historic campaign
- History and the people who recorded and preserved it
- Holidays
- Home remedies and the wisdom of the ages
- House that I love
- Imagination
- Intelligence
- Kittens
- Libraries
- Lifeguards
- Love
- Mammography
- Medical attention that is some of the best in the world
- Medical insurance that is excellent
- Medications that are plentiful and affordable
- Menopause (especially that I’ve lived this long)
- Message boards (internet message boards)
- Mobility and the ability to get from place to place
- Mouse traps
- Movies
- Music
- My mother
- Nail polish
- National parks (protected wild spaces)
- Nature
- Neighbors
- Netflix – so much info, so close at hand
- Neti pot
- Newcomers who make us remember what we’re here for, what is was like, and what we don’t want to return to
- Non-violence, the attitude my parents raised me with
- Novocaine
- Obama – love him, and that I got to see this and participate
- Ocean – seen from Hawaii, so beautiful, clean (looking) and warm, and fierce
- Oldtimers who don’t drink but keep coming to meetings
- Online communities
- Paid holidays, vacations and sick leave
- Pain killers, and a healthy fear of them
- Pain relievers – Ibuprofen, Acetaminophen and aspirin
- Pajamas
- Parents of people with disabilities, who show me by their example
- Parks
- Partners (in life, in work)
- Patience (my own, and that which is shown to me)
- Peace
- People of my prayer list
- People who back me up
- Pepsi
- Pets – current, past and future
- Pet food
- Pet sitters
- Photographs, especially those I’ve scanned and “backed up”
- Plants – to eat and grow for the yard, for the dog
- Poetry and poets
- Police
- Problems and difficulties that make me think and make me grow and (sometimes) enable me to help others
- Puppies
- Rain (every living thing needs water)
- Rainbows (are cheerful, no matter what)
- Reading – the physical and mental ability, and the desire and love
- Recycling, often made easy (curbside pick up)
- Relapsers who make it back
- Religion – freedom of and from
- Reporters, journalists and writers who go where I can’t or don’t want to
- Restaurants, the people who work them, the money to pay for them, and people to go with
- Road crews taking risks in the snow and ice
- Roads that are paved, plowed, salted and somewhat safe
- Safety – the relative safety of my environment, always
- Salt to melt the ice (I try to use it very sparingly, but sometimes it saves my neck)
- Scanner to digitize my old pictures
- School – good schools, for me and for my kids
- Seasons
- Second (third, fourth, fifth) chances
- Serenity
- Shopping over the computer. I still hate shopping, but at least I can do it in my pajamas.
- Siblings – that my daughter has a brother and my son has a sister – that they enjoy each other and spend time together willingly
- Smoking – the ability to quit
- Snow – beautiful, beautiful, beautiful
- Snow tires
- Soap
- Sobriety
- Sonograms and sonogram technicians
- Spell check
- Spring
- Steroids for the itchy dog
- Stores – nearby, and well stocked with everything I need or want
- Sun and sunlight
- Taxes that pay for things we need
- Teachers
- Television
- Text messages that let me avoid talking to people
- Thanksgiving (a day for gratitude)
- Therapy and therapists
- Time
- Toothbrushes and toothpaste
- Town
- Transportation that is safe and available for going places near and far
- Tweezers
- Twelve and Twelve (Twelve Steps and Twelve Traditions)
- Two pregnancies, two children
- Vaccines
- Ventilators (respiratory)
- Veterinarians
- Video, digital, and film recordings of so many things from the past.
- Water that is clean, safe and plentiful, and hot!
- Weather forecasts. Although they can be wrong and wacky, I imagine a time when people had no idea what was coming, or when it would end.
- Weather that is safe and varied and not too extreme
- Wife
- Wireless internet
- Work partner Irene who covers for me when I need her to and who has been with me for almost 20 years
- Workers – people who I work with who try hard and mean it
- Writers who write things for me to read
- Yarn that is affordable, plentiful and interesting
Nice List:)
TODAY !!!!!!!!!!!!
Love your list.
Your reply done on my birthday! Just finished
2nd 4th step…Very cleansing.
Loved your list of graitudes
I write a gratitude list each evening but you really have made me realise there is so much more I could add to my daily lists I thank you God bless Lorraine x
Look at this gratitude list
Just what I needed. An attitude adjustment!
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Wow! its amazing how quickly we can forget all of the things we take for granted!
192, wifey. ???
Amazing and uplifting, not unlike an AA mtg
I was intrigued with the list from A to … then I came to Gay. It’s your choice, that’s true. It’s still wrong.
The hate. It’s your choice, that’s true. It’s still wrong. Keep coming back.
Your response was perfect; kudos!
The person didn’t say he or she had hate. The person said it was wrong. They are entitled to their opinion.
My own addition –
I am alive. Finally.
Oh and thanks for your response to the above. Compassionate and true.
Thank You
Nice list!
Nice list..Having trouble with #128 though.
I’m sorry you feel that way, and I would also have trouble if the situation was reversed. In case future additions change the numbers, #128 is Obama. I freely admit that I fell way short of being grateful for EVERYTHING good and bad when the President was a shrub.
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Way too soon to tel if Obama should be on my gratitude list. For now no.. I am grateful for the freedom to comment without fear. I’m also very grateful for the 1st amendment, my grandson and a chance to try to help children in the part of the world where I now reside.
I am grateful for my new consciousness e.g. , that when I dwell in my ego I live with fear; when I dwell on my higher, I I live with love.
Obama? Really. If you like your gratitude list, you can keep your gratitude list.
Nicely done!
Nice List. YOUR list. It’s unfortunate how people feel the need to have to judge and impose their views instead of just “Living and Letting Live.”
Yes ! live and let live 🙂 I’m so luckey Thanks to AA and my higher power ! 🙂
I am grateful for AA. I only wish that more people would be willing to participate. My family had a life changing accident with an alcoholic. Not that anyone died, but, it change our entire outlook on life and an extreme prejudice against people who drink to excess. We have removed a whole group of friends from our lives.
Thank you for taking the time to make me think. One thing I have on my list is the Air I breathe.
That is a daily gratitude to my Creator. Also a few you have…the Sun, Water, my eyesight, the food that our Creator has given us to enjoy and make us healthy.
Thank you so much for your service work and I’m grateful to you Lydia!!
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Loved it!God Bless.28years & still grateful. Jeff P
10 years and it keeps getting better ! like i’m on holidays without John Barley Corn 🙂
Alcohol yaaaaa ! 🙂
Great gratitude list. I have no opinion of your sexual preference, it’s your choice. Enjoy live and live it to the fullest.
Appreciate your list. I do a gratitude list every morning with 5 new entries daily. Although I probably often repeat gratitudes, my list is now close to 4000 entries. This is from someone who before entering the program probably couldn’t have come up with 10 things to be grateful for.
Wow! How humble are you?