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Cesar Millan—nationally recognized dog expert—helps you see the world through the eyes of your dog so you can finally eliminate problem behaviors.

From his appearances on The Oprah Winfrey Show to his roster of celebrity clients to his reality television series, Cesar Millan is America’s most sought-after dog-behavior expert. But Cesar is not a trainer in the traditional sense—his expertise lies in his unique ability to comprehend dog psychology. Tracing his own amazing journey from a clay-walled farm in Mexico to the celebrity palaces of Los Angeles, Cesar recounts how he learned what makes dogs tick. In Cesar’s Way, he shares this wisdom, laying the groundwork for you to have stronger, more satisfying relationships with your canine companions.

Cesar’s formula for a contented and balanced dog seems impossibly simple: exercise, discipline, and affection, in that order. Taking readers through the basics of dog psychology and behavior, Cesar shares the inside details of some of his most fascinating cases, using them to illustrate how common behavior issues develop and, more important, how they can be corrected. You'll learn:

• What your dog really needs may not be what you’re giving him
• Why a dog’s natural pack instincts are the key to your happy relationship
• How to relate to your dog on a canine level
• There are no “problem breeds,” just problem owners
• How to choose a dog who’s right for you and your family
• The difference between discipline and punishment
• And much more!

Filled with fascinating anecdotes about Cesar’s longtime clients, and including forewords by the president of the International Association of Canine Professionals and Jada Pinkett Smith, this is the only book you’ll need to forge a stronger, more rewarding connection with your four-legged companion.
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Founder of the Dog Psychology Center in Los Angeles, Cesar Millan is the star of Dog Whisperer with Cesar Millan on National Geographic Channel. In 2005, the National Humane Society Genesis Award Committee presented him with a Special Commendation for his work in rehabilitating sheltered animals. A native of Culican, Mexico, Cesar lives in Los Angeles with his wife, Ilusion, and two sons, Andre and Calvin.

Melissa Jo Peltier, an executive producer and writer of Dog Whisperer with Cesar Millan, has been honored for her film and television writing and directing with an Emmy and more than fifty other awards. She lives in Los Angeles and Nyack, New York.

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Chapter 2: If We Could Talk to Animals

What is the communication style you use with your dog? Do you implore him to come to you, while he refuses, continuing to run down the street after a neighborhood squirrel? When your dog steals your favorite slipper, do you talk baby talk to him to try to get it back? Do you scream at the top of your lungs for your dog to get off the furniture, while he just sits there, staring at you as if you’re crazy? If any of these sounds like you, I know you’re aware that the techniques you’re using aren’t working. You understand that you can’ t “reason” with a dog, but you simply don’t know any other way to communicate with him. I’m here to tell you that there’s a much better way.

Remember the story of Dr. Dolittle, the man who was able to speak and understand the language of any animal he happened to meet? From the Hugh Lofting books to the 1928 silent film, to the thirties radio series, to the 1967 movie musical and seventies cartoons, to the blockbuster Eddie Murphy comedies, this wonderful tale and its main character have appealed to children and adults generation after generation. Just think of the countless worlds that would be unlocked if we saw things as animals see them. Imagine looking down at the earth through the eyes of a soaring bird, moving through life in three dimensions like a whale, or “seeing” the world through sound waves, the way bats do. Who hasn’ t dreamed of such thrilling possibilities? The attraction of the Dr. Dolittle story is that it brings animals to life, in big-screen living color.

What would you say if I told you that Doctor Dolittle’s secret was more than just creative fiction?

Perhaps you’re imagining this secret from a human perspective.

You’re wondering if I’m telling you that there’s a verbal way to talk to your dog, perhaps with the use of a phrase book that translates your language into his. What would his language look like, sound like, you wonder? Would it include the words sit, stay, come, and heel? Would you have to shout the translations, or could you whisper them? Would you have to learn how to whimper and bark? Sniff your pet’s behind? And how would your dog answer you back? How would you translate what he was saying? As you can see, creating a dog-to-human phrase book—the way, say, an English-to-Spanish phrase book is created—would be a very complicated effort indeed.

Wouldn’t it be simpler if there was a universal language that every species could understand? “Impossible,” you say. “Even human beings don’t all speak the same language!” True, but that hasn’ t kept people from trying to find a common language for centuries. In the ancient world, all the higher-class, educated people learned Greek. That way, they could all read and understand the most important documents. In the Christian era, anybody who was anybody knew how to read and write Latin.

Today, English is at the top of the language food chain. I learned this the hard way when I first arrived in America fourteen years ago. Believe me, if you’re not born speaking it, English is a monster of a language to learn from scratch—yet everyone from the Chinese to the Russians now accept it as the international language of business. Humans have sought other ways to breach the language barrier. No matter what language you speak, if you’re blind, you can use Braille. If you’re deaf, you can understand any other deaf person using International Sign Language. Mathematics and computer languages cross many linguistic borders and allow humans of different tongues to converse easily with one another, thanks to the power of technology.

If humans can succeed in designing these collective languages, can’t we create a way to converse with the other species on the planet? Isn’t there a language we can learn that means the same thing to every creature?

Good news! I’m happy to report that the universal language of Doctor Dolittle already exists. And humans didn’t invent it. It’s a language all animals speak without even knowing it, including the human animal. What’s more, all animals are actually born knowing this language instinctually. Even human beings are born fluent in this universal tongue, but we tend to forget it because we are trained from childhood to believe that words are the only way to communicate. The irony is, even though we don’t think we know the language anymore, we are actually speaking it all the time. Unknowingly, we are broadcasting in this tongue 24-7! Other species of animals can still understand us, even though we may not have a clue how to understand them. They read us loud and clear, even when we’re unaware that we’re communicating!

This truly universal, interspecies language is called energy.

Energy in the Wild

How can energy be a language? Let me give you some examples. In the wild, different animal species intermingle effortlessly. Take the African savannah or a jungle, for instance. At a watering hole in a jungle, you might see monkeys and birds in the trees, or on a savannah, different plant eaters, such as zebras or gazelles, wandering around, happily drinking out of the same crystal-clear pond. All is peaceful, despite the many different species sharing the same space. How do they all get along so smoothly?

How about a less exotic example? In your own backyard you may have squirrels, birds, rabbits, even foxes, all happily coexisting. There’s no trouble until you rev up your lawnmower.

Why? Because all these animals are communicating with the same relaxed, balanced, non-confrontational energy. Every animal knows that all the other animals are just hanging out, doing their own thing—drinking water, foraging for food, relaxing, grooming one another. Everybody’s feeling mellow and no one’s attacking anyone else. Unlike us, they don’t have to ask one another how they’re feeling. The energy they are projecting tells them everything they need to know. In that sense, they are speaking to one another, all the time.

Now that you’ve got this peaceful vision in your mind, imagine this: Suddenly, a new animal enters your backyard, or approaches our imaginary jungle waterhole, projecting a completely different energy. This new energy could be something as minor as one squirrel trying to plunder another’s stash, or a gazelle jockeying another gazelle for a better drinking position at the oasis. It could also be as serious as a hungry predator seeking to subdue its next prey. Ever notice how a whole group of peaceful animals can turn scared or defensive in an instant, sometimes even before a predator has shown itself on the scene? They probably got a whiff of its scent—but it’s also probable that they sensed the energy the predator was projecting.

What’s always amazing to me about the animal kingdom is that even if a predator is near, all the other animals can usually tell if it’s safe to stay around it or not. Imagine being introduced to a man you knew to be a serial killer. Would you be able to relax in his presence? Of course not! But if you were another kind of animal on this planet, you would probably be able to sense whether the serial killer was on the prowl or simply kicking back. Animals immediately recognize when a predator is projecting a hunting energy, sometimes even before they spot the predator itself. As humans, we are so often blind to these nuances in animal energy—we think a tiger is dangerous at all times, when, really, if he’s just eaten a three hundred-pound deer, he’s probably more tired than treacherous. The moment his tummy gets empty, however, he’s a different animal—all instinct, all survival energy. Even your backyard squirrel will pick up on this subtle difference. Yet we humans tend to be blind to what, in the animal kingdom, is pretty much a flashing red light.

Here’s an example of animal energy that folks who live in the American South can probably relate to. On a sunny day in Florida, Louisiana, or the Carolinas, you’ll see giant alligators sunning their leathery bodies on the banks of swamps—all over expensive, exclusive golf courses! Meanwhile, golfers are teeing off a few feet away. Herons and cranes and turtles are happily sunning themselves right next to these terrifying reptiles. Eightypound old ladies are walking their teacup-size dogs on footpaths just inches from the alligators’ swamp. What’s going on here? It’s simple. The other animals—from the turtles to the teacup Chihuahuas—are aware, on an instinctual level, that these fearsome predators aren’t in a hunting mode at the moment. One thing you can be sure of—when the same big creature’s tummy starts to rumble and his energy shifts into hunting mode, the rest of the animals will be gone in the blink of an eye. Except maybe the golfers. But they are one of the strangest species in nature, and even modern science hasn’t figured them out yet.

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  • ISBN-10 ‏ : ‎ 0307337979
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    Peltier is a New Yorker these days, born a New Englander who made a 20-year detour through Hollywood after graduating Phi Beta Kappa and cum laude from Pomona College in Claremont, CA. Most recently, she is the author of the darkly comic Hollywood novel, "Reality Boulevard". She is also the co-author of six non-fiction works: "The Mommy Docs Ultimate Guide to Pregnancy and Birth"; plus five books with 'Dog Whisperer' Cesar Millan, all of which were New York Times Best Sellers.

    A two-time Emmy Award-winning writer and producer, Ms. Peltier won her first Emmy for educational programming at the age of 23. Since then, she has accumulated over 50 national and international awards and accolades for her work as a producer, writer and editor of both documentary and dramatic television and film productions. Ms. Peltier is best known for her work as director and co-writer of the primetime documentary special, "Scared Silent: Exposing and Ending Child Abuse", hosted by Oprah Winfrey. This multi-network simulcast was hailed as television’s most watched documentary ever, and earned Ms. Peltier the coveted Humanitas Prize. Following closely on its heels was the Peabody Award-winning "Break the Silence: Kids Against Child Abuse", which Ms. Peltier also wrote and directed. In 1994, she was producer-director-writer of A&E’s four-hour special, "Titanic: Death of a Dream" and "Titanic: The Legend Lives On", then the highest-rated program ever aired on A&E, which won two Emmy Awards, including an award to Ms. Peltier for outstanding documentary writing. Three more Writer’s Guild of America nominations for documentary feature writing followed in subsequent year, as well as three primetime Emmy Nominations for Best Reality Show as an Executive Producer of National Geographic Channel’s "Dog Whisperer with Cesar Millan". "Dog Whisperer" also won the People's Choice Award in 2010. Peltier is a co-founder, partner and executive producer at the Burbank-based production company MPH Entertainment, which has created over 350 hours of orginal documentary and reality television programming, dozens of which she produced, wrote or directed.

    Peltier’s dramatic TV and feature credits include writing the Lifetime movie "Nightwaves" starring Sherilyn Fenn, and the story, "The Collector", for the hit CBS series, "Ghost Whisperer". With her MPH partners, she served as producer of the film "Men Seeking Women" (starring Will Farrell) and co-executive producer of "My Big Fat Greek Wedding," one of the most popular and profitable indie films of all time. Most recently, she produced the multi-festival-winning indie feature, "White Irish Drinkers", for Ovington Avenue Productions, of which she is also a principal with her husband, film/TV writer/director John Gray.

    She is represented by Scott Miller at the Trident Media Group.

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    Internationally-renowned dog behaviorist Cesar Millan is the New York Times best-selling author of “Cesar’s Way,” “Be the Leader of the Pack,” “A Member of the Family,” “How to Raise the Perfect Dog,” “Cesar’s Rules.” “A Short Guide to a Happy Dog,” and 2017’s “Lessons from the Pack,” all of which are available in numerous languages worldwide. He is the founder of the Dog Psychology Center in Los Angeles, California, and has established the Cesar Millan PACK Project, a nonprofit organization dedicated to animal rescue, rehabilitation, and rehoming. The original host of National Geographic Channel’s celebrated “Dog Whisperer with Cesar Millan,” he has also hosted the television programs “Cesar Millan’s Leader of the Pack,” “Cesar 911” (“Cesar to the Rescue” internationally), “Cesar’s Apprentice,” and, with his son Andre Millan, “Dog Nation,” all on Nat Geo WILD and Nat Geo Mundo. In addition to educational seminars that he leads at the Dog Psychology Center, Cesar makes appearances around the world in his acclaimed live shows. Born in Culiacán, Sinaloa, Mexico, he currently resides in Southern California.

    Lessons from the Pack: Stories of the Dogs Who Changed My Life is a eatured Amazon Category Pick In Best of the Month: Nonfiction (February 2017)

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I just finished reading a great book by Cesar Millan that I heartily recommend to any dog owner, Cesar's Way. I've watched all the episodes of his show, too -- interesting and entertaining, but no substitute for the book, which is insightful and well written. Yes, there are parts I wish he had gone into more depth about, but that will not reduce my rating here, as I understand exact approaches to certain techniques will be determined by the situation. Not a how-to book, more of a way of thinking, with plenty of practical advice. We have two purebred Labs, one American Bulldog, and one Pit Mix, so I appreciate that his philosophy applies to the stronger breeds, not just the submissive ones. Of special note are his sections on dogparks (should be required of all dog park participants) and meeting a dog for the first time (opposite of our typical human approach). I was saddened to hear that something that did concern me, the idea of tying a dog to a treadmill and leaving him or her unattended, even for a moment, ended this year with a tragedy at Cesar's center when a Lab being worked with by his assistants on a treadmill was basically hung by his neck. Other than the ill-advised unattended treadmill exercise, this is the best book I have read on dog training, right alongside How to Be Your Dog's Best Friend by the Monks of New Skete.
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5.0 out of 5 stars All Dog Owners Should Read This Book!
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I truly think that every dog owner should read this book and have as a reference. Cesar's books are written in a very entertaining and thorough way, however, you should have the right expectation in order to be satisfied with this purchase. This is not a step-by-step instruction on how to teach your dog to do tricks, or step-by-step how to solve your problems. However, if you are experiencing frustration with your dog's antics, behavior, or just want a better relationship and more understanding between you and your pet, this is a GREAT way to start.

Cesar does give case studies to illustrate his points; some people complain that there are no examples, but I disagree. Because Cesar's effort is more toward people training than dog training per se, most of his effort is geared toward YOU- understanding your dog's way of seeing the world, understanding the evolution of your dog's mind from wolf to domesticated pet, and knowing how to look inside yourself to find the solution to your issues. In a way, it's more of a dog psychology book than a training book. Even if you don't agree with Cesar's methods and don't agree with the points that he makes in his teachings, at least consider it before you brush it off. I personally find his points to be very true for me. He does make the point though, that each person needs to find the right method that works for them because there are many ways of training your dog and there is no right way for everyone. So, read it, take what rings true for you, and leave the rest.

I noticed, after reading this, that it was very true, that my energy and emotions directly affected not only my dog, but also my children! When I'd get stressed, I notice all of a sudden, the house would erupt in energy- my usually medium-energy children would start going nuts, breaking all the rules, screaming in the house, playing rough inside, etc...and the dog- she'd get all crazy too- picking up things for toys that she knows are off limits, running around and knocking down the kids (she's a Great Dane puppy), and just losing her grip! (shes also very docile indoors normally). I didn't see it at first, then when I realized that I had just fed this frenzy with my tension, I saw that I had to have better control over myself in order to make the changes that I want to see with my puppy- and subsequently, with my kids. How crazy, that getting a dog in the house would end up making me a better parent!

I love the way that Cesar manages to articulate a way to communicate with your dog that doesn't require hitting for correction- in fact, he says to never hit a dog! Yet, by learning how to communicate properly with your dog, use corrections with proper timing and energy, you can get their respect and affection and know that your dog is leading a full life because their needs are being met too. A dog NEEDS bounderies, she needs rules, and first and foremost, she NEEDS NEEDS NEEDS exercise!! She needs affection when the time is right, but affection is such a powerful tool that rather than worrying only about meeting my needs, I have to meet her needs first. This is probably the hardest concept to really take to heart for me and most people since we love them and know that they love us too. Trust me though, you can see it happen like magic when you apply the right technique and philosophy. It's amazing.

Now that we have mastered the walk, I look forward to our "migration" time and it's very obvious that she does too. Now she even waits for permission to enter or exit the house! We didn't even teach her that, we just used Cesar's methods to own the space by the door, established ourselves as proper pack leaders, and she just fell in to her place. She's happy and so are we. (Of course, a pack leader's work is never done and we're constantly trying to improve our consistency, our energy, and our methods).

I've always loved dogs, and looking back, I can see all the mistakes I've made before very clearly. I know that this dog is going to be the best I've ever had, and I look forward to our years together. I can't wait for her to help raise our next dog too!

Read this. Then read Cesar's book "Be the Pack Leader". The themes are similar but there's more expanding upon having the right leadership energy. I plan to read all of his books- not only are they just a good read, but they really help cement the concepts into my subconsious. I want to be the best pack leader I can be and to help my dogs be the awesome dogs they were born to be. It takes practice to know yourself, and to practice self-control when you're deep in an emotion. Maybe all your friends will think you're crazy because of the "new age" way you look at dog training- I know my family did- but it's not "new age" it's old school- really, really old school...like nature intended, and you'll never go back to humanizing your pets again when you see how truly happy they are being dogs!
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5.0 out of 5 stars Thanks Cesar!!
Reviewed in the United States on April 24, 2013
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We bought this one and "Be a pack leader" as companion help guides. I believe in his methods because I have seen the results with our own dog. I am impressed not only with his way with dogs, but with his candor and honesty.
We have had dogs our whole lives (we're seniors) and never really had a dog with issues we didn't know how to address. That changed when we got our most recent dog from a rescue organization. We've had rescue dogs and cats before and highly recommend it, but being a good pack leader is even more important when you get an adult dog that hasn't been socialized well.
The first thing I would tell folks is to get one of Cesar's books or videos BEFORE you go get your dog. Knowing how to bring a dog (especially an adult dog like ours) home and introduce them to your family is very important and can nip some problems in the bud. We "fell in love" with "Tara" and brought her home and showered her with love and affection because we felt sorry for her and because we had missed having a dog since ours passed and because we love dogs. She responded with love and affection, but was beginning to show signs of taking over the house. On top of that, we found out that our sweet lovable little ball of fur, HATES, HATES other dogs. Not people, thank heaven, but she went ape whenever she saw a dog - I mean, crazed growling and barking and snapping. Not cool in a neighborhood that where almost everyone has at least one dog and they spend quite a bit of time outside in their yard or walking. Then we started noticing she was fixating on my cockatiel and licking her lips whenever she saw her. She even jumped up and knocked over her cage. Scary. Then she started barking at everything that moved outside the window, birds, leaves, people. For the first time in all my dog years, I was at a lost as what to do, but there was no way I was returning her. We took her into our lives for keeps. I already was a fan of Mr. Millan's show, so naturally I turned to him for help. I bought a video on picking out and bringing a dog home. It pointed out several things that we had already done wrong. As suggested by Cesar's book and video, I talked to a local trainer too. She said that Tara appeared to have been bullied by her previous owner, and/or by their dogs. (she had a very aggressive brother that we did not select for that reason) and had a serious problem that was fear based. (fear aggressive in Cesar's terms) She gave me some tips that I am using in conjunction with this book to help us be better dog owners and to tackle the issues we were having. We really want her to be a big part of our lives which includes travel, camping and walking our dog down the street without fear of offending the neighbors or worse, having our dog attack theirs. We wanted a happy dog and to be a happy family. This book has helped so much. I learned some things we needed to change and immediately began to follow Cesar's exercise, discipline, affection structure. She loved the exercise part, but that created more tension because of her reaction to dogs. We found a slot of time when most of the rest of the dogs were indoors and walked, walked, walked. Taking charge of our house was easier than I thought. She fell into line fairly quickly when we set rules and followed up with calm, no nonsense correction. I couldn't believe how LESS talk and more energy could make such a huge difference. Now my husband and I laugh at each other whenever one of starts "explaining" something we'd rather she not do to Tara. She doesn't get it, but she understands our body language and energy. One word or sound works much better than all the pleading or cooking in the world. He books reinforced what I already knew, that dogs sense how we are feeling and our energy and that makes a huge difference in how they react. If we lose it, they will too. We have to stay calm and strong for her so that she knows she is safe and can follow us anywhere.
Outside was harder, but we have made great strides. It's been two and half months and we can actually walk by a fenced dog that is barking without her going crazy and wanting to eat him. HUGE progress! We still haven't done the actual meet another dog thing, but I think we'll take Cesar's recommendation and include the trainer for that part. I really don't want to use a friend's dog to see if we can all keep our heads. She should be ready for that step soon. The bird issue is also getting better. I have established the bird as "mine" and even though she still rushes toward her at times when the bird is squawking, she will back off with a look or hand signal from me.
Cesar's book is full of helpful advice and examples. The only drawback is that both this book and the "pack leader" book seem rather disjointed in the way it was edited. I can overlook that for results like we have gotten. It will take time, and my husband and I both have to be on the same page and be consistent and continue to be calm and assertive (this does not mean bossy or mean!). I will never be have the magic he has, but reading his books and watching his video has put us on the road to a happier life with our dog and to staying calm when our dog isn't. I wish I could hug Cesar.
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I’m enjoying learning about Cesar’s understanding of the way a dog’s mind works. How, no matter how long dogs live with humans, they are still animals with a pack mentality. Cesar’s insights and methods are helping me be a better pet sitter. I love the way his writing is simple and yet he makes comparisons to humans and our way of communication. Any one could read this book and learn from it.
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I recommend this book for all dog lovers!

This book clearly tells about dog cycology, about how dogs see the world, about dogs what expect from us, how should we treat our dogs etc etc topics!

Note that this book is not about "solving common dog's Problems"!
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